Conversation
After a quick greeting, use the following questions as a guideline to form an interesting conversation with your tutor. Feel free to diverge from these suggestions if anything interesting comes up.
- Some people trust their first impressions about a person’s character because they believe these judgments are generally correct. Other people do not judge a person’s character quickly because they believe first impressions are often wrong. Compare these two attitudes. Which attitude do you agree with? Support your choice with specific examples.
- When has your first impression of someone been wrong?
- When has your first impression of someone been correct?
- Which attitude do you tend to rely on?
Vocabulary
Skip this section if you have 15 minute plan. Read the word/expression and definition out loud, and your tutor will go over anything you do not understand. Practice creating a sentence or two to make sure you know how to use the word/expression properly.
Vocabulary/ Expressions
Expression | Definition |
impression | (n) the idea, feeling or opinion about something or someone, especially one formed without conscious thought A first impression can be important or not at all. |
appearance | (n) the way someone or something looks Some people base their judgments on the appearance of someone. |
positive | (adj) no possibility of doubt, clear She was positive that he was a good guy. |
accurate | (adj) correct in all details His impression of her was accurate – she was down-to-earth. |
judge | (v) form an opinion or conclusion about someone or something She was sure not to judge someone before getting to know him or her first. |
encounter | (v) to unexpectedly experience something He wasn’t ready to encounter his elementary school bullies. |
appeal to | (expression) to be attractive or interesting Her fun, outgoing personality appealed to the other girls in the group. |
make sure | (expression) to verify, double check He had to make sure that the facts were correct before saying anything. |
size up | (expression) to examine someone or something closely Before the game started, he sized up the competition. |
judge a book by its cover | (expression) to prejudge the value of something based on outward appearance When making new friends, she knew it was important to not judge a book by its cover and base her thoughts on outward appearance. |
Something Extra
Read the following quote out loud.
“You will never get a second chance to make a first impression.”
― Will Rogers